Tuesday, 14 January 2014

Only Psychopaths Bungee Jump

Recently Channel4 had what they called 'Psychopath Night', it was a 90 minute programme in which they spoke to experts regarding the traits of a psychopath and counted down the top ten film psychopaths.  There was also an interview with a jailed criminal.



Psychopathy is characterised by amoral and antisocial behaviour, an inability to establish meaningful personal relationships, a callous disregard for others, extreme egocentricity, a lack of remorse or conscience, and a failure to learn from experience.  A lack of empathy and early life trauma, either at birth or shortly after are also cited.

The top ten movie psychopaths, according to the show, are;

1.     The Joker from The Dark Knight


2.      Dr Jed Hill from Malice (no, I've never heard of it either)
3.      Kevin from We Need To Talk About Kevin
4.      Alex from A Clockwork Orange
5.      Tom Ripley from The Talented Mr Ripley
6.      James Bond
7.      Gordon Gekko from Wall Street
8.      The Replicants from Bladerunner
9.      Hannibal Lector 
10.    Norman Bates, although the experts say he is less psychopath, more suffering from Multiple Personality Disorder.

Professions were also reviewed and the top five for psychopaths are
1.     Finance
2.     Law
3.     Media Executive
4.     Sales
5.     Surgeon.

A group of volunteers were tested, there was a written test followed by a one-to-one interview and then the two highest and lowest scorers were given one final test.  They were all led blindfolded to an area outside.  Their blindfolds were removed to reveal a bungee jump.

This is apparently an ultimate test of psychopathy.

Both the high scorers went ahead with the jump, whilst the two lowest scorers did not.

I have done a bungee jump.  I work in finance.  I have a lack of empathy.  I went through early life trauma.  I struggle to make friends.

Does this make me a psychopath?

Sunday, 12 January 2014

Sunday Night Mash Up

It was my birthday this week, I have reached the grand old age of 43, so it was cakes all round at work.


And can anyone explain why fire drills only take place when it is cold and rainy and you have a deadline?  Why do they never take place when it is warm and sunny and a post-month-end madness day?  Is there a law somewhere that specifies this?

We had a fire drill on Thursday and it was cold!  And muddy as well.  There is work going on right outside our fire escape so we had to paddle through it on the way out and then trekked it back into the office on the way back in.

I have been giving myself a bit of a talking to this week, there are things going on in my life which I need to resolve, I will be blogging about these as I go.




Friday, 10 January 2014

Pay Day Loan Companies, My View.

There has been a lot in the news lately about Pay Day Loan companies but, personally, I don't have a problem with them.

Whilst their interest rates are extremely high, they are all advertised, they are not hidden.  I have, in the past, used their previous incarnations which were places where you could cash a cheque which would not be banked until an agreed date, this of course all came at a fee.  I haven't used this service for several years now having sat myself down and worked out a budget - so much on bills, so much for savings, so much for spending etc.



Now the issue seems to be that children can see the adverts for these services and pester their parents into getting loans so that they can buy them the latest gadgets and clothes.  What is wrong with the parents saying no?  Or is that word not acceptable these days?

I know that when I was little, I could ask once and if I was told 'no', that was an end to it.  If I did have the devil in me and tried to pester, I would end up with a smacked bottom and an early night.

But in these days of benefits, easy money and instant gratification, I guess that people will continue to get into debt instead of saving for something because that takes time.

Tuesday, 7 January 2014

Tired Of Being Single? the ad said, yes I thought and bought the book.

And I read most of it open-mouthed in disbelief.

First of all, the subtitle is 'Become The Woman Every Man Wants'.  Why?  What is wrong with being me?

I am supposed to stop fearing being single.  I am 43 years old and have never had a relationship, I think I have passed being scared about being single.

And apparently I am embarrassed, ashamed and afraid of being single.  I am embarrassed by several things, but being single is not one of them.  I am (slightly) ashamed of being a Cliff Richard fan, but not of being single.  I am afraid of frogs, but not of being single.

I am supposed to date several men at once, the one that REALLY wants me will make the effort to let me know.  Seriously, if I could get ONE bloke who wasn't involved in a murder investigation or a Crimewatch Most Wanted List to go on a date with me would I have really have bought this book?

Why should I have to change myself to attract a man?  I have tried that in the past, and spent £000s doing it, all to no available. Why am I not good enough as I am?

Yes I am overweight, and yes I am not particularly attractive, but and it is a big but(t), I work full time, I hold a responsible job. 


I am currently studying to become a qualified accountant (whilst I am working full time), I can cook, I can clean, I can perform basic car maintenance, I don't tend to panic without good reason.  

I see myself as like Chummy (from Call The Midwife), ungainly, a bit shy but very capable, in fact, if I had been around in those days I probably would have been in demand.  

But, both fortunately and unfortunately, it is not the 40s/50s and as far as I can see, men are looking for something that I do not have and no amount of books will help that so I don't know where to go from now on.

All I know is that I do not want to spend another Christmas/New Year/Birthday as a single person.

Sunday, 5 January 2014

Sunday Night Mash Up

This week saw the start of 2014, so HAPPY NEW YEAR!



It was also back to work after my Christmas leave, but with the schools and colleges being closed, the bus journeys this week have been short!  Although Monday and Tuesday it was a Saturday service which meant an extra couple of miles on an already lengthy run.

The weather has been bad this week.  I am not a fan of Coventry, but frankly, having seen the conditions that elsewhere has suffered, I am quite pleased that I am in the centre of the country.  The worst we really have seen are a few slightly flooded roads, a few battered fences and some downed wheelie bins.

Friday night I felt like a bit of a gamble.  I have an online account with William Hill and have done for some years.  I am useless with the horses and football too, but I do like the slot machines (or one armed bandits as we used to call them). I managed to turn my original £50 stake into over £2000!  You could have knocked me down with a feather.

Unfortunately, never being one to be able to stop whilst I am ahead, I carried on playing and ended up withdrawing 'just' £1200, still, it all adds to the car fund.

Tomorrow is my birthday and I will be the grand old age of 43, I have no idea what presents, if any, I am going to get.

I still have over a month before I receive my ACCA exam results, it seems so long since I sat them.

Weightloss Challenge - The Sequel (This Time It Is Personal).

So Christmas is over and not just the goose got fat!

After being reasonably successful in the run up to Christmas, I think I have probably put on all the weight that I had lost, and I think it brought friends.


I am hoping to lose weight a bit more consistently this time, I had a big loss the first week (6lbs) but then patchy in the following weeks.  My goal this time is to lose 5% of my body weight, at my start weight of 17st 7lb (aaarrrggghhhhh), this means that I am aiming for a loss of 12.5lbs but I am not putting a time limit on it.

It is my birthday tomorrow and that means taking cakes into work, but after that I will be good.  I am currently planning my lunches, so fingers crossed.

I have added a weightloss ticker at the top of my blog, so it will be the first thing everyone sees! Hopefully this will help.


Friday, 3 January 2014

"What I got for Christmas 2013"

I have seen a lot of 'what I got for Christmas' posts, some people having to do them in 2 or 3 parts, so here is mine.

From Mum and Dad

£50
A Cosy TV Blanket


2 Bedsheets
Box of Biscuits
Box of Marzipan Fruits



From the Dog

A bottle of Cherry Liqueur



From the rest of the family

A tea light holder

From Work

A big bottle of Babycham and a Brandy miniature
A matching skull necklace and bracelet
A half bottle of Brandy
A book of scary stories, bookmarks and a handmade black heart necklace

The marzipan fruit have already been demolished and the brandy and the biscuits have been started!